Say goodbye to anxiety and internal struggles—snagging cost-effective, high-quality domestic products on Double 11? Young people’s lives are simply too good!

Recently, I came across once again a now-viral article titled "Great News! Not a Single Student from This Dorm at Huazhong University of Science and Technology Secured Graduate School Admission Through Direct Recommendation!" At first, I assumed it was just another typical display of academic excellence—and perhaps a bit of playful bragging—by these top students. But when I clicked in to read more, I was utterly stunned by the unexpected twist. In the comments section, some readers exclaimed, "So it turns out there’s really more than one path in life!" Others even questioned, "Isn’t giving up direct-recommend admission kind of foolish?" Yet, here’s what I’d like to say—maybe it’s time for all of us to start looking at the world from a different perspective.

1. Rather than talking about "other people's kids," I'd rather discuss "our own family's journey."

According to reports, the dorm room is home to four guys—some have already landed offers from top-tier companies, others have secured funding from industry giants for their startup projects, and yet another is preparing to study abroad for advanced education. They weren’t lacking in academic performance; rather, they had clearly mapped out their life paths early on. One of their classmates’ words left a deep impression on me: "Rather than squeezing through the same narrow bridge, it’s better to jump into the water early and test your own boat."

Seeing this suddenly brings to mind a conversation I had with my good friend recently, where we both sighed: It seems like we’re always chasing "someone else’s path"—after graduating from college, we feel pressured to pursue postgraduate studies or aim for government jobs; if we don’t succeed, it’s as if "our lives are over." Before the age of 30, girls are expected to hurry up and get married with kids, while guys are supposed to build successful careers and enjoy fulfilling family lives... Yet, there’s never been any rule telling us exactly how we *have* to live. Everything we see and hear is merely what others project onto us—never truly what we ourselves truly desire. After all, no one has dictated that life must follow this one rigid script. Take these young people, for instance—they’ve proven through their actions that true maturity means daring to take responsibility for yourself, rather than living solely to meet others’ expectations.

2. "Lying Flat" or "Involution"? Perhaps We've All Misunderstood Something

Over the past few years, people have often been heard casually tossing around the phrase "lying flat," and there’s always someone claiming that young people are "giving up again" or "just coasting." But when you really think about it, is that really the case? — Take a look at those around you who constantly complain, saying things like, "I’m so exhausted," "I really don’t want to work anymore," or "I’ll quit tomorrow"… yet quietly keep pushing themselves to learn and grow. Then consider the person featured in this report, who gave up pursuing a highly coveted graduate program—something others would kill for—to instead chase their own true dreams. Perhaps, after all, everyone is simply growing tired of pointless exhaustion and starting to wake up, learning to see the world clearly and ultimately seeking the deeper meaning of their own lives.

This transformation is evident in every aspect: No longer blindly following the "Double 11" shopping frenzy—people now buy only when they truly need to. Nor do they prioritize saving face by splurging on unnecessary items; instead, they focus on what genuinely makes them happy. Even their attitude toward work has shifted—increasingly, individuals are choosing careers they’re passionate about over secure, traditional job positions. After all, living life on your own terms? That’s what it’s all about!

I believe that by the time you’ve read this, you’ve already gained some insight—this isn’t about passive avoidance, but rather a conscious, proactive choice made after clarity!

3. Living well is, in itself, a victory.

Of course, that said, not everyone can be as carefree as the protagonist in the news story. I believe most people quietly gather their own little moments of happiness in the ordinary days— Working overtime and coming home for a soothing hot bath, enjoying a cozy meal with friends on the weekend—even making household chores just a little less hassle—can all become small, heartwarming joys that heal your day.

I used to always hear the old saying, "You get what you pay for," until I was pleasantly surprised by domestic brands—and realized it’s not always true. Great value-for-money items can truly and quietly boost your sense of life satisfaction. Just like the one I've been using all along. Add Titanfine Plum Purple Nitrile gloves ， 100% high-quality nitrile latex feels gentle on the skin and is wonderfully breathable, while its simple, elegant design ensures it won’t look out of place. Best of all, the price is less than half that of big-brand equivalents—perfect whether you’re washing dishes, cleaning, or handling ingredients. Not only does it keep your hands protected, but you won’t have to worry about breaking the bank on “expensive yet essential” items. Truly a little helper for everyday life!

4. You, who love life, deserve better choices.

As we hit the Double 11 shopping festival, the festive vibe is already in full swing—so it’s time for me to give my own brand a little promotion! Let’s celebrate together! This Double 11, Titanfine is offering discounts starting from 15% off across Tmall, JD.com, and Pinduoduo. And here’s the kicker: I rarely offer discounts this big on a regular basis—so this is your golden chance to snag some amazing deals!

5. A Letter to Every You Living Life with Intention

Let’s shift our perspective back to that original news article—actually, the reason it resonated so deeply with so many people, I think, is because we all saw a reflection of ourselves in it: the conflicted figure who yearns to stay true to who they are yet fears drifting too far from the crowd; the one who painfully listens to their parents’ advice—“My child, pursue postgraduate studies, take the civil service exam, get married, have kids…” But please don’t forget: life’s greatest sense of security never comes from comparing ourselves to others—it stems instead from embracing and trusting ourselves. Learn to accept your own authentic thoughts, and dare to do what truly matters to you (as long as it’s positive energy, of course!).

Finally, no matter whether you choose to pursue further studies, enter the workforce, or find yourself unexpectedly in midlife—whether you’re passionate about filling your shopping cart with cherished items or prefer a minimalist lifestyle—as long as you feel comfortable and at ease, that’s exactly the best arrangement for you. After all, life is yours to live—so why worry about what others think?